WHAT TO EXPECT IN A TANTRIC CEREMONY
Merging the Sexual Self with the Spiritual Self
Goddess Ashah will be your guide through your sacred Tantric journey together.
This will be done in three immersive sessions, can be done online or in person, ideally in person is more suitable. The reason this is done in three sessions is so that you can practice the techniques and integrate any surfacing emotions in between sessions.
(This can be done in three separate days over a weekend or one session per week over three weeks)
The first session you will both practice a ritual that begins with a gentle opening ceremony designed to help you feel safe, relaxed, and fully present because trying something new can naturally bring a little nervousness or uncertainty.
Through guided tantric connection practices and conscious breath work, you gradually build and balance your energy while calming the nervous system, allowing anxiety to melt away and making space for deep relaxation and moments of ecstatic bliss.
Soft eye-gazing creates a deeper intimate connection and conscious touch invites trust and authentic connection, to experience love and sensation throughout your whole body rather than in just one area.
The last part of the tantric connection practices is a heart-centred position called Yab-Yum which translates to Honourable Father and Honourable Mother, this is a place where giving and receiving become balanced: the masculine energy embodies stability and presence, the feminine energy invites openness and flow where shared breathing and mindful movement help you slow down, feel grounded, and step out of the busy mind into the present moment..
Yab Yum position creates closeness and full-body awareness, allowing connection, affection, and life-force energy to be felt throughout the entire body. The result is a sense of unity, relaxation, and deeper emotional bonding, a gentle reminder of what it feels like to truly meet one another beyond the busy mind.
The second and third session if you are male/female lovers practicing over a weekend, begin with the male because if the woman begins, she may feel quite emotional and not have energy to practice on you. If this is done over three weeks - one session per week, this doesn't apply because you will both have the whole week to integrate before the next session.
After the first session immersing into connection practices, the massage itself begins on the back of the body, using deep yet nurturing pressure along the spine to open the energy channel to release tension and open energetic flow, before moving into a blend of gentle and firm techniques on the front of the body.
The last part of the ceremony (if choosing this option), is the lingam massage - Lingam translates to Sacred wand of light, (this is not a 'happy ending') the focus of this is awareness because the intention is not release rather massaging this area to activate the root chakra (base energy centre) to awaken the energy and allow it to rise up the body and learning to circulate and harness your life-force energy so it nourishes your entire being rather than wasting this energy (which is the equivalent of spiritual gold, when a man releases through ejaculation his body lets go of vital nutrients, minerals and testosterone levels decrease due to releasing up to 200 million sperm cells because the body does not know the difference between contribution to creating a baby or releasing for the sake of it) this can also contribute to full body orgasmic experience which can last 10 minutes up to hours of feeling this orgasmic energy flooding your body (depending on how open the man's energy is), an ejaculation is the equivalent of a level 10 pleasurable experience but lasts 20 seconds and depletes a mans energy whereas focusing on orgasm not ejaculation can last minutes to an hour but more of a level 8 sensation.
The last part of the ceremony (if choosing this option), is the Yoni massage - Yoni translates to Sacred Space, the focus of this is awareness because the intention is not release rather massaging this area to activate the root chakra (base energy centre) to awaken the energy and allow it to rise up the body and learning to circulate and harness your life-force energy so it nourishes your entire being. This can feel extremely healing and empowering for women who still have conditioning around pleasure, around puritan culture that they have obtained from societal or religious beliefs and reclaim their sexuality and embrace their suppressed inner wild woman. You can choose either external Yoni massage which is focusing on the Groin, Labia Minora, Labia Majora, and Clitoris or also include internal Yoni massage which is a consensual, sensual, slow and gradual process focused upon releasing Amrita, which can be deeply healing for the woman, releasing trauma, stress, pleasure and even bounds of happy tears.
The key is men learning to find pleasure in the touch and massaging this sensitive and sacred part of the body rather than it turning into masturbation and separating the ejaculation from orgasm.
The key is men learning to find pleasure in the touch and massaging this sensitive and sacred part of the body rather than it turning into masturbation and separating the ejaculation from orgasm.
Many clients arrive feeling curious yet unsure, and leave feeling revitalised, connected, and deeply alive, a deeper connection with themselves and their lover, a powerful reminder that when your energy flows freely, your body can become a source of healing, pleasure, and transformation rather than stress or disconnection. This is a safe, conscious space to explore sensation, presence, and self-connection in a way that feels empowering, respectful, and profoundly renewing.
For tantric massage to be beneficial:
- Consent must be enthusiastic and ongoing
- Both partners should feel emotionally safe
- There should be no pressure to perform
- Communication should remain open
- Continuous practice after the session
This is not just an experience but a sacred sexual practice that can continuously evolve and will last you a lifetime and bring you closer than what years of therapy could do.
Session 1 - Tantric Connection Ceremony - 1-2 hours £300
Session 2 - Tantric Massage for Him - 2-3 hours £400
Session 3 - Tantric Massage for Her - 2-3 hours £400
(3 sessions paid in full, enjoy a £100 discount totalling £1000)
(Outside of North East prices will have an additional outcall fee and travel fee)
Ready to explore Tantra? Complete the application form in the page 'Work With Me'
BENEFITS OF TANTRIC MASSAGE WITH YOUR LOVER
- Many couples report feeling more emotionally bonded because the focus shifts from performance to presence.
- Talk more openly about boundaries
- Express preferences without shame
- Learn to listen to subtle cues
- Lower cortisol/stress levels
- Reduced anxiety
- Improved sleep
- Greater relaxation
- Exploring the whole body
- Removing goal-oriented pressure
- Release past sexual insecurity
- Release Performance anxiety
- Release Body image concerns
- Feeling more “in sync” with one another
- Experiencing deeper trust
- Feel a sense of sacred partnership
